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Feb 19 2017 Whorearchy & "Do all escorts sell sex?"Category: General     10:58PM   0

This blog is more of a response to a conversation than a work of inspired wisdom, insight, or deep thought. It's an attempt to clarify this tweet:

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Feb 8 2017 Searching for My Perfect GFECategory: General     11:27PM   0

Today I started a task that is making me appreciate the plight of so many well-intentioned gentleman looking for the "temporary Ms. Right" in the vast expanse of the escorting underworld: I began looking, in earnest, for a lady to hire...for me.

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Jan 11 2017 A "Real" Job? An Open Letter About Choosing Sex WorkCategory: General     01:48PM   1

You’d think that in a city like Las Vegas, being an independent escort would be easy. Tourists come from all over the world, excited to get a taste of Sin City. But what many people don’t realize is that just beyond the glitz and glam of the strip, Las Vegas is very much a moralistic town like many others. It might be OK to be a showgirl or an acrobatics performer, but a GFE companion? “Go get a real job. Being a sex worker isn’t a real career!&rdqu

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Jan 9 2017 How to Determine A Legitimate Provider Without Review CultureCategory: General     11:11PM   1

“How to determine a legitimate provider from a fake if you don’t (or she doesn’t) participate in review culture”

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Dec 19 2016 The Complex Notion of Danger in EscortingCategory: General     09:29PM   0

There's something captivating about powerful men, but sometimes the same characteristics that make a man powerful also make him dangerous.

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Nov 20 2016 Branding and AuthenticityCategory: General     02:48AM   0

Today one of my Twitter friends and real life colleagues tweeted me a compliment: "If I were a GFE, you'd be my role model, and I'm serious lol! The look, the intellect, the packaging. Marketing brilliance."

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Nov 11 2016 I Can't Keep the Secret Any Longer! It's Time to Share the Big News!Category: General     08:14PM   0

I've only been back from the Middle East since July, which means I can count the number of clients I've seen since then on two hands. There have certainly been times over the past couple months when I've thought, "If I would just switch from moonlighting to working more frequently, think of all the money I'd be able to put away!" It's immediately after those thoughts that I feel grateful for the life experiences I had before entering the erotic industry; the le

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Nov 1 2016 Why Are Escorts So Expensive?Category: General     06:15PM   1

The questions of why and how sexworkers or companions charge the rates we do is one that I hear on both sides of the provider/client fence.

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Oct 28 2016 4 Hour Las Vegas Date IdeasCategory: General     03:00PM   0

"What would be your perfect 4 or more hour date?" he asked.

I stared blankly. I had no idea. So I sat with the question and put on a [figurative] concierge hat, eventually arriving at my list of options for a truly spectacular 4+ hour Las Vegas GFE experience.

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Oct 28 2016 A Client's Take on Escort ReviewsCategory: General     12:06PM   0

The following is one of many emails I've received from gentleman expressing their personal anti-review sentiments. I'm sharing it here today, with permission, not because I'm on an anti-review bent; I'm not. I support the freedom of every provider to choose the strategies that work for her (although yes, I do question the bounds of "choice" in this case, given that a choice to delist is constrained by the realities of TER as a marketing tool). I'm sharing it be

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Oct 21 2016 Whose Job Is It? Countering Problematic Sex Work NarrativesCategory: General     03:38PM   0

The arrest of Backpage CEO Carl Ferrer earlier this month highlights the contested nature of—and mechanisms used for—exchanging sexual services for money, much like the FBI’s raid of in 2014 and the Department of Homeland Security’s raid of in 2015. The anti-trafficking narrative propagated by popular media anti-sex work activists stands in stark contrast to the “sex work as work” narrative expressed by many independent middle an

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Oct 8 2016 RumiCategory: General     01:49AM   0

I want to see you.

Know your voice.

Recognize you when you
first come 'round the corner.

Sense your scent when I come
into a room you've just left.

Know the lift of your heel,
the glide of your foot.

Become familiar with the way
you purse your lips
then let them part,
just the slightest bit,
when I lean in to your space
and kiss you.

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Sep 28 2016 DaybreakCategory: General     11:09AM   0

"Reflective thought precedes science, which merely employs it more methodically."
-Emile Durkheim


Silk robe.


Herbal tea.


This is how I welcome the day.



Lubricate the mind.

Drink it in.

Let it go.

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Sep 26 2016 What Does It Mean to Be A Hobbyist? Part 2Category: General     04:10PM   0

Shortly after publishing What Does It Mean to Be A Hobbyist? Part 1, I received the following message from a contemplative gentleman:

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Sep 18 2016 What Does it Mean to Be A Hobbyist? Part 1Category: General     05:12PM   0

“When we replace a sense of service and gratitude with a sense of entitlement and expectation, we quickly see the demise of our relationships, society, and economy.”  --Steve Maraboli

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